There are some problems in marriage that even the strongest of marriages can not survive.
It is important you know them, even before getting into the marriage proper.
If you could ask a husband or wife what their worst fear is when it comes to their marriage, many would probably say their partner having an affair.
Affairs are not only a betrayal of trust and love, but of the respect you have for your husband or wife and the commitment you’ve made to them.
But what some couples fail to realize is that although that might be a legitimate fear and something to avoid at all costs, there are some underlying problems that arise before the affairs begin.
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And some of these problems are so bad, if not discovered or prevented, can ruin your marriage.
Here are 4 problems that even the strongest of marriages cannot outlive unless they are corrected, or never done in the first place:
#1. When you stop being partners
Your husband or wife is your partner. This means that all decisions that pertain to your lives should be made together, thought through together, considered together.
When you stop being a team is where problems can begin, because instead of feeling that you can trust and rely on your spouse to have each other’s best interest in mind, you will feel alone and that you have to f***t about every little decision.